Are you really active in your local BDSM community?

Absolutely.  I happen to live in a part of the USA where there is always something going on in a 100 mile radius.  We are very fortunate!  My favorite place to play is Sir Steffan's in the Tampa area.  It is in a private home with a fully equipped large dungeon space.  Email me for information to learn more about it, as well as my screen names on the major BDSM personals/networking sites.

Professionally, ab! out six years ago, I took my many years of being a bottom and a submissive, and used that experience to become a professional dominatrix.  My clients come from all over the United States, as I live between Tampa International and Orlando International Airports.  I have a number of regular local clients, because our mutual trust and mutual respect have formed deep bonds with some.  It has been very fulfilling for me, much more so than I would have ever imagined.

Have you always been a BBW?

No.  For many, many years I was a size 12 and weighed abou! t 140 - 150 lb.  Now I am steady around 245 lb., size 20-! 22. &nbs p;Do I miss being a size 12?  Honestly?  Not really.  There are many, many wonderful men who appreciate a larger woman with curves and like me just the way I am.  The reality of that last sentence made me realize that I do not have to be skinny to be happy and to be desired.  I am actually much happier now, probably the happiest I have ever been in my life.  I enjoy expressing my self-acceptance through my photos and videos on here.  

Would you meet me?

There are millions of people who come to visit my state every year for vacation.!  I see no reason why we could not meet over a glass of wine or sweet tea.  I enjoy meeting people and I would definitely be honored to have the opportunity to meet my members.  But I do have a very hectic schedule and travel often - I am usually out of town!  Plus, you need to know that meeting you does not mean we will have sex!

Why did you join Southern Charms? 

Throughout the years, my activities have been photographed for the pleasure of my partners and myself.  It was suggested to me that I join SC and share wit! h many other people who are curious or active about my lifesty! les - BD SM, swinger, nudist, Tantra, etc.  The more I thought about it, the more it made sense!  I am not embarrassed about what I do.  To me, it is beautiful.  It is fulfilling.  It is validating.  SC has opened up a world of new experiences for me, many of which you can see in my member's section, that I otherwise would not have explored!  I am very grateful for that.

Why aren't you involved with anyone?

Because I am happy with just me.  I do not need someone at this point in my life to "fulfill" me or "complete" me.  I really l! ike who I am and enjoy being alone, and my life is very busy - usually too busy, in fact - to adequately take care of the needs of a significant other.  But if Master Right came along, I would have to seriously reconsider my priorities ;-)  Plus, at this stage in my life, I am very, VERY picky!  I do not want or need to settle for less just to have a companion.  In the meantime, I am very blessed with absolutely wonderful close friends, friends with benefits, play partners, and I can also get all the sex I need through my work, heh heh heh.

How long have you been involved in BDSM?

Ever since I can remember,! going b ack as young as 5 years old, I interpreted certain types of pain as pleasurable.  (I have no memories of anyone abusing me - my earliest memories are of using hairbrushes on myself, and ribbon for self-bondage.)  It just grew from there!  I cannot ever imagine being "vanilla," because I have never been "vanilla."  That's just the way I'm wired up.  

Please note that Southern-Charms does not allow hardcore BDSM or sex.  If you would like information as to my photo collections and videos of more explicit content, email me.  And I also do custom videos and photos according to your script.  Just keep it legal!

How do you identify yourself sexually?

I identify myself as a bisexual, polyamorous, non-monogamous, hedonistic, masochistic, nymphomaniac, bottom to many, submissive to few, and slave to the One I have not yet met.  And yet, I am a kick-ass professional dominatrix!

Will you do a smoking photo session for me?

Because of bad lungs and allergy to ! cigarett e smoke, I cannot do any cigarette smoking.  I am very sorry.  But I try to do one cigar smoking update once per month.  

What do you do for fun?

I like to hang out with my partners in crime at BBW nightclubs, swinger parties, BDSM parties and dungeons, go to the nude beach or spend a day at nudist resorts, spend hours in metaphysical shops holding rocks, go nekkid camping with swingers (better if there's a roaring bonfire), go tubing down a river (just watch out for those alligators), spoil my cats and give them catnip (alm! ost free entertainment!) visit Native American pow-wows, go hiking in the woods, read, get tied up and have (consensual) naughty things done to me, serve a handsome Master, ride on the back of a motorcycle, browse the web, give erotic massages, get therapeutic massages (well, ok, I like to receive erotic massages too if I'm really into you!), sit naked in a hot tub with like-minded people with a glass of wine under a full moon and a gazillion stars discussing important things like 1. how the universe got here, 2. the meaning of life and 3. the absolute perfection of a Snickers bar.  

I want to send you something.  How do I do that?

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Aw, you're so sweet!  Thanks!  You can send me gift certificates online (Torrid.com, BDSM-Gear.com, Wal-Mart.com, Amazon.com, Newegg.com, and many others, just ask), or you can send me items through the mail.  I am always grateful for lingerie, sexy high heels, anything metaphysically related, toys, jewelry (OOOHH, SHINY!!!  Me want!), perfume, things that taste good, things that smell good, things that feel good, and much more.  Contact me for size information (size changes according to each individual manufacturer) and my P.O. box information.  If you send me anything, it must be new and in an unopened original package.  I'll send you a picture of me enjoying it as a little "Thank You."

Have you really been asked ! these questions or did you make them up?

I did not make these up, including this one, LOL!