Are you really active in your local BDSM community?

Absolutely.  I happen to live in a part of the USA where there is always something going on in a 100 mile radius.  We are very fortunate!  My favorite place to play is Sir Steffan's in the Tampa area.  It is in a private home with a fully equipped LARGE dungeon space. 

Within the past two years, I have taken my many years of bottoming and submissiveness, and used that experience to become a professional dominatrix.  My clients come from southern Florida to northern Florida, many of them repeat clients.  Mutual trust and mutual respect have formed deep bonds with some.  It has been very fulfilling for me.

Have you always been a BBW?

No.  For many, many years I was a size 12 and weighed about 140 - 150 lb.  Now I am steady at 236 lb.  Do I miss being a size 12?  Honestly?  Not really.  There are many, many wonderful men who appreciate a larger woman with curves and like me just the way I am.  I am much happier now that I do not have to watch every single calorie and worry about if I gained weight by eating that delicious piece of cherry truffle.

Would you meet me?

There are millions of people who come to visit my state every year for vacation.  I see no reason why we could not meet over a glass of wine or sweet tea.  I enjoy meeting people and I would definitely be honored to have the opportunity to meet my members. 

Why did you join Southern Charms?

Throughout the years, my activities have been photographed for the pleasure of my partners and myself.  It was suggested to me that I join SC and share with many other people who are curious or active in the BDSM lifestyle.  The more I thought about it, the more it made sense!  I am not embarrassed about what I do.  To me, it is beautiful.

Why aren't you involved with anyone?

Because I am happy with just me.  I do not need someone at this point in my life to "fulfill" me or "complete" me.  I really like myself and enjoy being alone, and my life is very busy - too busy, in fact - to adequately take care of the needs of a significant other.  But if Master Right came along, I would have to seriously reconsider my priorities ;-)

How long have you been involved in BDSM?

Ever since I can remember, going back as young as 5 years old, I interpreted certain types of pain as pleasurable.  (I have no memories of anyone abusing me - my earliest memories are of using hairbrushes on myself, and ribbon for self-bondage.)  It just grew from there!  Please note that Southern-Charms does not allow hardcore BDSM or sex.  If you would like information as to my photo collections and videos of these, email me!

How do you identify yourself sexually?

I identify myself as a non-monogamous, masochistic nymphomaniac bottom to many, submissive to few, and slave to the One I have not yet met. 

Will you do a smoking photo session for me?

Because of bad lungs and allergy to cigarette smoke, I cannot do any cigarette smoking.  I am very sorry.  But I have recently found out I can tolerate a limited about of cigar smoking!  If cigars is one of your fetishes, ooooh my, we can have fun with that!

Have you really been asked these questions or did you make them up?

I did not make these up, including this one, LOL!