Well, for you guys that are really into reading about lil ol me, these are just a few of the questions that I get asked in e-mails, chats or even in person.
If there is something you ABSOLUTELY must know about me, and I havent included it, feel free to drop me a note at firstname.lastname@example.org and I will do my best to answer your question!
Q: What made you decide to have an adult site?
A: I've always been a very sexual person, and have a healthy exhibitionist and voyeuristic side to me. I'm extremely flirtatious with both men and women, so I'm comfortable with my sexuality. When I think about it, if someone asked me 10 years ago if I would do this, I would have said "No way!" But now I'm much more interested in exploring my sexuality and personal freedom. I'm confident and comfortable in my own skin these days...call it my liberation and enlightenment! LOL
Q: Who takes your pictures?
A: My wonderful husband has most of the photography to date. However, as we explore more and more, you just never know what might happen. Again, it goes back to voyeur in me, and the idea of being watched in some of those intimate and hot moments. Any Playboy photographers can e-mail me for my personal phone number!!!
Q: How did you get involved with Southern Charms?
A: I've always dabbled with modeling and working with photographers. I had done some mainstream work in my younger days and always enjoyed the results. When we ventured into a more adult-oriented brand of images for our own personal enjoyment, we tried a little dare on a free gallery - just to see what the reaction would be. A very lovely lady contacted us and suggested we explore this site. That was back in the summer of 2002, and here we still are, having fun.
DID YOU KNOW:
20% of men admit accessing pornography at work
13% of women admit accessing pornography at work
Q: Do you have a philosophy on life?
A: You bet - Life is too short for hang-ups. So, get over yourself and open your mind. It bugs me that people want to impose their own views and morality on others. When Im 90 and my great-grandchildren ask about my life, I dont want to tell them I wish I had done that while I was young, etc.
Q: What does your family think of you having a website?
A: Hmmm. Good question. When I launched this, I was upfront with my parents. I chose to tell them myself so they wouldn't be sideswiped if someone found out. I did this out of respect, not approval. At my age, I pretty much live my own life. A couple of my family members learned about my site and have stirred up a lot of crap, but I chalk that up to jealousy. Their lives are so small and petty that they need to tear down others to make themselves look better than they really are. They still even keep tabs on what I do here. So pathetic. Right Jon & Vicky?
Q: Do you take requests?
A: Yes, I will certainly consider all requests within reason and decency. There are some things that I will not do (i.e. rape fantasies, bestiality, body funtions). Send me your ideas and if it really appeals to me I will e-mail you directly to discuss it.
Q: Do you do custom videos?
A: The answer is no, and yes. In order for me to do a custom video for you, it requires a very clear understanding as to what you are looking for in terms of content. I dont do anything that crosses the boundary of good taste (i.e. body functions/scat) or illegal (children, beastiality). While other Charms will offer different (discount) prices, MY custom videos are not cheap (solo nudity, 30 minutes, starts at $500). However, my videos will certainly be a very special investment that you will enjoy for a very long time.
Q: Will you answer all e-mails personally?
A: At first I tried really, really hard to keep up with it all, and then I found my life so consumed with keeping up, it became too difficult. Some e-mails I do answer, especially the ones that are well written and respectful. Maybe you have a decent question, or want more information about my photo sets. Those I do answer. But reality is, the ones that begin "Hey Baby! I want to (fill in your own personal fetish here)", often don't receive a lot of attention. We all have busy lives and I do like to get know about my members. But make sure it's something you'd want to share in mixed company!
DID YOU KNOW:
Approximately 70% of time on-line is spent in chat rooms or sending e-mail; of these interactions, the vast majority are romantic in nature.
Q: Can I meet you in person?
A: At this point, the only way I am meeting my members is through my Meet Me Auction, which I run every so often. However, Im open to suggestion if you have a very compelling story to share. I am not an escort, or exotic dancer, so I can not be hired for personal sessions, and any meeting is always with a chaperone and in a public location.
Q: What will I see if I join your Members Area?
A: Members have the exclusive opportunity to see ALL of me and what turns me on the most. For sure, there will be lots of sexy clothing, special themes, stripping, adult toys and action shots from tame solo to orgasmic hardcore.
Q: Do you enjoy anal?
A: Yes, both stimulation and penetration. I also love it when my lover plays with my ass during sex. That really gets me going!
DID YOU KNOW:
According to a 2002 survey conducted on over 12,000 men and women aged 15 to 44, results show that 34 per cent of men and 30 per cent of women reported engaging in anal sex at least once.
Q: Will you grow out your armpit hair?
A: While I have a great deal of hot Italian blood flowing through me...I'm VERY North American in terms of hygiene and hair. Sorry armpit hair fans, the most you will see is that five-o'clock shadow look.
Q: When will we see a girl/girl update?
A: Good question...maybe when I find a girl that I can get on my site...LOL Truth is, I would like to explore that aspect, but the people I invite onto my site have to not just have a chemistry with me, but also with my fan base. And I really don't want to do something that is a "fake" scenario. To me that is cheating my members.
Q: How old were you when you lost your virginity to a guy? To a girl?
A: Like so many other people, the first time wasn't exactly the best time. It was awkward, unromantic and the boyfriend I had was very disappointing. I was 15, and still wish I had waited. As for losing my "same sex" virginity? There's some things I'm still working on, but I was 31 when I had my first real sexual experience with another woman.
DID YOU KNOW:
The average male loses his virginity at age 16.9; females average slightly older, at 17.4.
Q: If you could do just one new thing sexually, what would it be?
A: I've certainly had a chance to explore some of my wildest fantasies of late, and so now I find myself wondering where it could go next. I guess I have to say a true MFM. There are lots of time when I'm deep into having some really naughty, knock-down sex and the idea of having someone else around comes up...that sends my mind to some pretty wild places. And trust me, my mind is my best sex toy.
Q: What's the "biggest" you've had?
A: This question always leaves me giggling like a little girl in the playground. For the longest time I never knew you guys even measured it. BUT, if you want to know, I'd say I have never used a ruler as part of my sex life. I've had big, I've had small...what I enjoy right now is the talent to know just how to use it.
If you want to know more about me, feel free to e-mail me at email@example.com